In the realm of relationships, there are certain patterns of behavior that can be detrimental to the health and longevity of a partnership. Renowned psychologist John Gottman, through years of research and observation, identified four such behaviors, which he aptly named "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse." These behaviors, if left unchecked, can lead to the downfall of a relationship. Let's delve into each of these horsemen and explore how they can be recognized and addressed.

Marriage is often viewed through different lenses, shaped by cultural, religious, and personal beliefs. One compelling perspective comes from Timothy Keller, a prominent pastor and author, who distinguishes between covenantal and transactional approaches to marriage. Let's explore Keller's insights to understand the profound impact these perspectives can have on marital relationships.